Update: I always ask him how he can just be so messy & he says he don’t like to clean. He’ll pick up the necessities, but to full on clean he just don’t like to. I even have to clean his car. It has like 5 fast food bags and a bunch of other trash and I cleaned it out Friday. Took 2 trash bags to clean. I know I ‘shouldn’t have done that’. But it was like that for MONTHS & I’m in it constantly so I just couldn’t take it anymore. I’m not used to this as well because the only other guy I have lived with was the guy before him (that was 3 years) and he was clean 24/7. His car never had a wrapper in it.

Update: I have to clean it. I’m such a clean freak. I wait to see how long things will get out of control & he’ll make sure the living room is picked up by the end of the night(not really, just enough to look good) but the kitchen will have dishes in it for 2 weeks.

Like he will not touch laundry or do dishes. I could wait 2 months, he just won’t.

The house is always clean when it’s just me and our son.

When my husband isn’t working(by working he goes to school full time) , the house is a disaster. He has 3 days off to make the house like this.

The kitchen sink is full. The stove has food all over it. In the pans ect.

The trash is overflowing.

The bathroom has all his clothes on the floor.

& guess who has to clean it up. Me.

Until he gets home at 5:30. It’ll be back to this again.

I’m so fed up with this. I have told him a million times to stop being so messy.

Like he wanted me to clean the dishes last time & I said if I clean them they are going in the trash.