Hi all! I’m fairly new to sex, and have a partner who isn’t new to sex, but I think could benefit from me learning more about myself and how to pleasure me.

I’ve always masturbated and been okay with it so this is great because in that way I’ve come to know myself in a way that helps me be pleasured during sex with my boyfriend. What I am new at is being fingered. I want to find my g-spot and I want him to find it, and I want him to know how to finger me. When he does it now, I feel that he does it a little too feverishly, and maybe the wrong way? It feels a little tiny bit pleasurable but not ... enough? Does that make sense.

Does anyone have any tips or articles scientific or otherwise that can help me start on the path to self-exploration?

Anything helps. Thanks y’all!