Baby Mama Drama

Hi Ladies, so I’m in a pickle. My boyfriend has a baby mama, they were “together” for 13 years - I say “together” because he was married their entire “relationship” (he’s divorced now.) She made his wife’s life a living hell and she’s slowly doing that to me. She’s been posting on Facebook as if they’re in a “relationship.” For example, she who post she’s at a restaurant and have a picture of the menu. That’s suppose to signal me that he was with her. But there has been several occasions where I’m with him, so I know the post isn’t true. But for the times I’m not with him I’m left wondering. I don’t know what to think anymore. How would you ladies handle this?

Update: Yes. He was 20 when he married and got both women pregnant. And ever since he juggled both. He’d end the relationships with both of them, date, and eventually he’d go back. The baby mama always made sure the wife felt he was with her, even though at the time they weren’t. It eventually tore them apart.

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I wouldn’t be with any man that was “together” with a baby momma the entire relationship with his ex wife period. Doesn’t that tell you something ...

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Cait • Feb 6, 2019
Right .... 🤮

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She didn't make the wife's life a living hell, he did by bringing another women into the relationship. Just block her and move on.

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Was he cheating on his wife? I don't understand.Either way. Just block her on all social media. Problem solved.

Br

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I think you need to rethink your priorities. Do you really want to be with someone who was with his baby mama the same time he was married to another women?

Ke

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Ew why are you with him? He cheated on his wife for 13 years and got them both pregnant? This did not set off warning bells in your head....?  Good f’n luck- I’d never trust anyone like that. What makes you think he wont cheat on you?

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Yikes. He seems very unstable wife and baby mama? Yeah that would be a flag not to date him babe. Just blocked em’ you should really consider the relationship.
Yikes. He seems very unstable wife and baby mama? Yeah that would be a flag not to date him babe. Just blocked em’ you should really consider the relationship.

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Adriana • Feb 5, 2019
Just to clarify I know he’s not with em’ just his past is eek

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Why are you following her on Facebook? I don’t see how her posting she’s at a restaurant is any shot at you. It sounds like you’re paranoid.

Me

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He sounds like a waste of space.

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Why are you with this boy? He clearly was a cheater and quite frankly still sounds no good.

An

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So he got another woman pregnant while he was married?