My husband and I recently found out that we are having a girl. I have a name picked out that I have loved since I was in middle school. I have always told my husband that this is what we will be naming our future daughter, and he loves the name as well.

I always imagined myself giving my daughter this name as soon as we found out we were having a girl, but a part of me does not want to give her this name until she is born.

I know this is going to sound terrible, but what if we give her this name and then something happens to her? Then the name wouldn't really be put to use like I want it to. I know this sounds bad, but it's how I feel.

We can't just give her this name now and then change it if something happens. I would never be able to use the name again. It just wouldn't feel right. On the other hand, I want my daughter to have a name now.

Someone please help me and don't pass judgement. Has anyone else felt this way?