So I hooked up with this guy, who I did enjoy and thought was my friend, in three separate occasions. He pulled out each time, but we had sex multiple sessions each encounter. Well I’m now 2 weeks late. I was four days late, and decided it was probably the right thing to do to tell him. I had tested and it was negative. I told him that. Apparently that was not the right thing to do. Since then I’ve just had more negatives. Was that stupid of me to keep him in the loop of what’s happening? I feel like I just constantly make the wrong decisions.

Update: sorry I feel like I should make myself more clear. I’m not asking about the pull out method or anything like that. I’m fully aware of the reliability, especially since we did it multiple times after the initial pull out. I am asking, however, if it was the right thing to freaking tell him what was going on. I am 19 days late now and have tested all negatives. I was on the pill for five years, and wanted to switch methods. I just wanted some time in between for my body to just do its thing. I get the anxiety that goes with it, but I, personally, felt like it was still the right thing to do to tell him.