TTC WHILE ACTUALLY SERVING

Ok I see A LOT of military SPOUSES here but are any of you serving and TTC?? 😞 I’m in the navy and I have a feeling I can’t get pregnant 😭 and I went to medical but they say they can’t do anything because I’m not married... kinda sucks I have to wait to get married to see if I can have babies. Please any info will help. I want to know if I’ll get in trouble for seeking help outside of navy medical