LONG STORY! New mommy & Cheating BD
I been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and we’ve been planning to have a baby for almost 2 months. Everything was perfect with us up until December when I found out he was speaking to his ex inappropriately. I confronted both of them about it and at the time we had just started trying to have a baby. I ended up taking a plan b and didn’t tell him bc I wasn’t convinced of anything he was telling me but I believed the girl. Time goes by and we’re back on good terms but I haven’t gotten over that situation. We try to have a kid again in January. We had a nice romantic weekend but I decided to go through his phone not to my surprise I find naked pictures galore of ex gfs, random porn stars, even pregnant women!!! I was up all night plotting ways to catch him in the act so I take pictures & videos of everything even hacked into his fb. I knew if I presented him with just the pictures I found he would have a dumb excuse. The next day comes I confront him about the naked pictures he says they’re old 😐🙄. I fake believe him and I take a pregnancy test turn out I’m pregnant and shared the news with him. The next day I see him messaging this girl I knew of and says show me your tits & all this inappropriate stuff. I text him and say we’re done exposing all the messages, pictures and everything else I gathered from the last 3 days. I blocked him on EVERYTHING he comes to my house and calling me off random number CRYING bc he felt guilty for doing all of that stuff to me. I had to unblock his number for the sake of communicating with him for our child but... I don’t ever see us getting back to how things were before. We’re cordial for the moment and he keeps trying to win me over with gifts but I won’t believe another word that spills out his mouth. What do you all think about this situation? Do you think I handled this correctly? What advice do you recommend?
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