So I’m having 2 baby showers, I had one this past weekend and I’m having the other next Saturday. Anyways, I invited my friends to both and they could decide which would be more convenient for them to go to. I have 2 friends who are going to both (which is super sweet of them to do :,) ). However, my closest friend lied to me and told me it was her grandmothers birthday that day and so she wouldn’t be able

To make it, which was okay with me, then she texts me the day of the baby shower and apologizes she can’t make it because “she was working.” I didn’t think anything of it. So, I completely forgot to reply until yesterday, and she asked about the baby shower, if I took pictures... but what bugged me is that she asked if “a lot of people went” and “did you get a lot of gifts?”....

she then asked me what else I needed and I said to her “honestly, anything you want to gift” and she goes on to say “ugh I’ll look at your registry then..” I didn’t even reply to her anymore because apparently it’s a hassle for her to look at my registry?

It just really rubbed me the wrong way that she asked me that because she tends to be super judgy. I don’t want to vent to anyone about this because I feel like it’s a petty reason for me to be bothered by. 🙄🙄🙄🤦🏽‍♀️