PCOS advice?!?

I was diagnosed with PCOS a lil while back and someone very dear to me had it also & took fertility meds to conceive & she had life threatening issues w/ her pregnancy and had to deliver her baby a little to early. Im here asking advice on other options for TTC with PCOS. My husband and I have been trying 3 years with no luck. ☹️ im so afraid to try the meds now. I just want to have a healthy pregnancy & baby. If anyone has any info or stories of their journey please share with me. Anything would help. 😌 im getting so depressed with this process and I just dont know what to do anymore.