At what point would this be a problem?

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Let me start off by saying, my man has never had a high sex drive. Once or twice a week if we are lucky. If we make it a full week with no sex, I'm literally driven crazy. We are on week three, tomorrow . 3 weeks with no sex. At all. I love my husband, and we are both devoted, and trying to have a baby. But I'm starting to feel like it could be me. All other aspects of our life are fine. Nothing has changed. At what point would you consider having him checked by a doctor or something.  Am I just driving myself crazy?

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Our standard is 2 ti.es a week which I have accepted and come to terms with . I have a sex drive through the roof and could probably go several times a day if I wanted to. After 2 weeks, he knows it's bothering me.  But 3 weeks is uncalled for, even for him. I know it's not normal for him not to have the urge but he's trying to play it off.

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I voted 3 weeks. It’s hard for me to understand bc I’ve always had a high six drive but I do know a lot of people that are okay without sex for a month + and they have always been that way

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Update: We did have sex on the first day of week 3. I did previously ask him why he thought he wasn't feeling up to it and he couldn't pinpoint anything that had enough effect to change his sex drive lately. But we did have the conversation of possibly having him checked out if it continued.

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Ours is about twice a week too. But my drive is also through the roof. He just tells me that his isn’t as high. It doesn’t usually cause any problems until it’s the right timing with ovulation and he’s just “not in the mood”. But I would go nuts having to wait passed even one full week.

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Have you asked him about it? What does he say?

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I was just about to write about this. My boyfriends drive isn’t that high and now trying to conceive is hard when he’s just not in the mood on ovulation days.

At what point would this be a problem?

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