So I'm 3 weeks away from giving birth to my 2nd son. I DO NOT want another child. My limit is 2 children. I was given the consent form yesterday at my appointment ready to sign but my OB had my mind racing when we talked about my husband. My husband wants 1 more and his reason is because he wants to try for a girl. He says that whatever I choose to do is okay with him & that he'll eventually get over it. I feel bad because I don't want him to end up resenting me later down the road for it BUT I don't want to feel like I can't do this because of how he feels. Has anyone gone through this or is currently? Did your husband end up resenting you years later? I know everyone catches baby fever sometimes but I'm really set with my 2 boys. I'm also a high risk pregnancy and I would also love to start my life on what I would like to do. We are a military family and that has always been put first. With a PCS coming up soon, I want to focus on what I would like to do career wise. I don't want to be on birth control or have any worry about possibly getting pregnant.