Any suggestions?

Question

I bought all this stuff awhile back and me and my boyfriend probably only used it a few times... I love it when he dominates me and is rough. I would love to use this stuff more often but the past few months he just wants to fuck and not use anything. What should I do? Use it on him since he doesn’t wanna use it on me??

Answer

Always talk outside of the bedroom/dynamic/moment about what you want and what you’re feeling. Have a scene negotiation. Plan out what you want him to do to you ahead of time, have him plan out what he would like to do ahead of time. Agree to it together and then commit to a time and date.

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Guys get caught up in the moment, I have to remind my bf to use our stuff sometimes because he's just too excited that he forgets! Just give him a little reminder right before you get into it

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Have you talked to him about incorporating it more? You can use it on him if he's into being dominated but if not I'd just leave it

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Surprise him with you already being set up with it.

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