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I hear you but try not to resent. Money isn’t everything & you have no more right than they do to have a child. Keep positive & try to be happy for others. You don’t know what their personal situation is.
So frustrating 😡
I'm a store manager, TTC for 2 years and it's getting to the point that selling pregnancy tests to literal human garbage makes want to scream.
I have a good job. My husband has a good job. No baby. Yet the unemployed dirt ball that had to count out nickles and dimes to buy a $2 test can knock up someone 😡😡😡
Bullshit!
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Ca
It’s hard to not be resentful. Even more so when you try for 3 years have a home a good career and you see someone just carelessly sleep around get pregnant not know who the father is and abort the baby. Twice now my reckless niece has gotten pregnant in the 3 years we’ve been trying smoked pot her entire pregnancy smoked pot while breastfeeding gets pregnant again and decides her pot smoking lifestyle shouldn’t get in the way of her being 21. Yeah I do feel some type of way when for 36 months I’m devastated.
Ma
Kinda have to disagree there, there are very much people who don't deserve to have children...and unfortunately those are the people that pop them out with ease.
I hear you. I work in education and teach in a super high needs school where90% of the kids are born with FAS or addicted (NAS) living with neglect, extreme poverty, social services involvement, addiction, abuse, parents who dgaf etc etc the list goes on.. and these parents or care givers (if you can call them that) keep having babies like 8-15 kids each and babies that get taken right from birth into the system. One highly addicted mom who has only 4 of her 15 kids living with her who is 31 years old and who is pregnant again told our secretary “I’m just going to keep having them until they let me keep them.” There are 3 ppl on staff who can’t even have one baby because of fertility issues. It’s a huge kick to the gut seeing this day after day. It truly makes you question the fairness of life.
Vent away. I completely get it. Life really isn’t fair at all. My little boy was killed. He was 4 and my kids were/are literally my everything. I was the best mom. I LOVED playing blocks with my son and making him cute animal-shaped food and snuggling with him. And now, daily, I see these horrible moms who scream at their little kids to hurry up, or moms who would rather Snapchat than play with their kids. It infuriates me too, and it hurts my heart.
As
Thank you. Hang in there. It’s ok to be frustrated. I pray you get blessed with another baby soon.
Ma
Sooooo very sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine!
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