Comfort over happiness

I’ve realized I’ve been choosing comfort over happiness.

Will being single make me comfortable? No. But am I happy in this relationship? No! I’m comfortable in a relationship, having someone always there... I’m comfortable living where I’m living with him, I’m comfortable but until I step outside my comfort zone I will never be happy. Leaving will not only be a change for me but a change for him, it will be uncomfortable to change his life as well, to upset him, but if it leads to my happiness, I think it’s worth it.

It’s something I have to really hammer into my own head. It’s not easy.

I hope any of you ladies in the same boat as me also realize that your happiness matters more than anything else, even though it won’t be easy, don’t keep settling...