So I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 4 years now and I didn’t expect the reaction that he gave me today. I found about a week ago that I was pregnant and went to the doctors to confirm. So I decided to surprise him in a very thoughtful way that we were pregnant last night. When I surprised him instead of being happy he was upset. Asking me questions on how far along am I and am I considering abortion? I told him I don’t plan to abort the baby. So then we got into a huge fight. He basically said that he doesn’t want it and the baby is not even life yet which really hurt. We haven’t really spoken after he left last night. He just called this morning asking how was I feeling. He said he was going to pass by after work to talk.