It really irritates me that EVERYONE in both sides of our family acts like I have to come to their house for them to see my son. Am I in the wrong for being aggravated about them complaining. "You never bring him to see me" "I haven't met him yet because you won't bring him to my house" "You can take him to this place but can't bring him to see me"

You know what???? I've lived in the same place for a year. It won't kill you to come to my house too. I'm not going to load him and all the things I need to bring with me for him in my car and drive 30+ minutes JUST to visit for an hour when there's shit I need to get done at my house. I'm damn sure not about to bring him there just to hear you talk SHIT about my husband, his father. Not gonna happen. Visits go both ways.