When to throw the towel in is the question. My husband and I have been through so much to get where we are. It seems like there is always something that adds more stress than needed. We have a business, have kids, and tons of other stuff going on. I had a reversal 18 months ago and nothing still. Well he's a morning person, I am not. He goes to bed early, I'm up later. I can't fall asleep right away and have to get the youngest down and stuff picked up. He can't stay asleep so he's always up super early. When he wants to have sex it's so early like 1:30, 2, 3...and I'm so drained, then he gets frustrated and always makes comments. Lately I seriously want to throw in the towel. I'm tired of his stress and his needs always being more important. It's like I'm not allowed to be tired, even though I don't sleep well either, his stress is more important. I try to tell him when I'm close to ovulating and guess what, to bed early every night. Ugh men I swear.