Wedding crap

I wish planning my wedding was simpler, I could invite or include who I want without family members butting their heads in saying “we have invite them too because they would be offended that we didn’t invite them”. It’s my wedding!

Like why do I need family or people there that I don’t care about, or don’t even know. Why do I have to include people who excluded me. This part of wedding planning is really frustrating, I feel like I have no control over it. It feels like a party for a bunch of my family’s friends with my wedding on the side.