How to cope with pregnancy after miscarriage?

Question

Had a missed miscarriage last july & found out 3 days ago I’m pregnant again 🙈 I couldn’t be more happier ❤️ only thing is I’m finding it hard to stay positive and I can’t wait for my 12 week scan ! That’s when I found out last time about my miscarriage! Just wondering if any one else has had the same anxiety and what i can do ? X

Answer

I was the same I found out I was pregnant at 3+5... had a chemical miscarriage last year in May.. had a early scan at 9 weeks thought I was 8 so that relaxed me abit then coming to 12 week scan I started worrying again so had scan other day said I was 12+6 everything is all fine and now I feel completely relaxed xx

Answer

Yep, all of us have the same fears. I’m in yet another two week wait to find out if I’m pregnant for a fourth time, but I only have one healthy child, so I’ve had multiple losses. Of course I want to be pregnant again but it’s going to be so hard not to be so scared pretty much at least until we get a clean bill of health. Our first pregnancy was an early miscarriage (well, 9 weeks) and we don’t know what happened. The most recent loss was a TFMR due to Turner Syndrome at 12 weeks and has absolutely devastated me. It’s been so much harder than the miscarriage. It was mid November and I’m still traumatized by the actual procedure and the loss of our baby. 
I’m pretty sure there’s no way to get through at least the first 20 weeks without being a little bit of a nervous wreck, but maybe once you’re past the anatomy scan and everything looks good, you’ll be able to relax a little. Things can still go wrong but it’s super super super unlikely so it’s good to try to enjoy it. I was scared pretty much my whole pregnancy with my daughter and I wish I’d enjoyed it more.

How to cope with pregnancy after miscarriage?

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