Never been so angry and sad and frustrated in my life.

I’ve served for 5yrs my husband for 7. His enlistment is up in June and we wanted to go home for good. I’m pregnant and trying to do 1288 to ir and go home but the commander is denying it saying since it’s my first term as a reservist I’ve done 4 yrs active now 1 in reserves. He won’t sign my 1288 and let me out. I’ve never been so frustrated so now being pregnant and having a 2 yr old and really wanting to go home to have family support I’m being denied that. Ive always loved and respected the military but I’m so upset right now, I just want out. 😭