Let me just start off by saying that I have a 9 month old baby boy and I just found out I’m pregnant, I’m 22 and married to the father of my son and my next baby.. anyways so i haven’t told many people because i like to wait till i know we are cleared but almost everyone that I have told congratulates me but also throws in a comment such as “oh but your baby isn’t even 1 yet” or “omg why are you having them so close in age weren’t you using protection.?”

Which honestly bugs me because for one I’m married to the father of my kids we’ve been together almost 5 years and we live on our own we receive no help whats so ever and yet I’m still being shamed for having a baby so soon. Me and my husband wanted our babies two years apart but i ended up getting pregnant right away we thought we wouldn’t get pregnant right away cus with my son it took like 8 months but we had a sticky bean and I just hate feeling guilty my own sister tries to judge me when i tell her i want 4 kids in total 2 now and 2 in 6 years or so and shes so judgmental towards it. With all the negativity being thrown at me at times i don’t even want to say I’m pregnant till i have the baby. Anyone ever been in this situation?