Just to preface, I lost my daughter at 25 weeks in August. I had used this app to talk to other women and I had played off the fact that I didn’t feel her move for a few days. And then when I got to the hospital I had found out she passed. I blame myself every day because I wonder what would have happened if one of those women said go to the hospital. I now don’t trust anyone other than my doctor with matters of my child.

It just irks me that some women on here present troubling symptoms and then just try to explain them away or bury them. Then they get angry at you for telling them to go get checked or go to the hospital. Others accuse your of trying to scare them.

I had commented on a post about a woman who said she thought she was leaking fluid at 39 weeks. I told her “you should go get checked out at the hospital, you could end up with an infection that could kill your baby.” Then she messaged back that she was going to wait and see what happens! So I wrote back “I’m sorry to be blunt but waiting could cause your baby to die,” I then went on to explain that I lost my daughter and did the same thing. So then she jumped on me for saying that. I just don’t understand why with certain things you just wouldn’t get checked out. Sorry for my rant.