Y'all am I crazy???

Question

So me and my SO we're suppose to go out tonight but we didnt make it due to another couple. Long story short we fell asleep so I took my makeup off put on my pjs. My boyfriend wakes up yelling oh you have been out without me because you already took your clothes off and makeup off?? Don't I need to do that to go to sleep? In really over him saying I'm cheating on him all the time what should I do?

Answer

My boyfriend does this I’m a sense. He’s wonderful in every way except he’s been cheated on by almost every ex girlfriend. He doesn’t “accuse me” per se, but sometimes (if I have to work late out of the blue) he’ll say, “you bette be working.” I do everything I can to ease his mind that I won’t do that to him. He has grown TREMENDOUSLY since we first got together with his insecurities. Everything I do is because I WANT to, NOT because he asks. We both have iPhones, so I share my location with him indefinitely. At any given moment, he can see where I am. I showed him how it works (he hates technology, poor thing lol), and that does make him feel a lot better. I also update him when anything changes with my schedule, and he has the password and fingerprint to my phone. One day he did that “snatch the phone and run and lock yourself in a room” thing and he was soooooo blown away that I didn’t chase after him lol. His exes who were cheating went crazy trying to get in the room to get their phone. His mom and sister caught one of his exes cheating, too. He never talks down to me in any sense when he’s having a little “is she cheating on me” fit. He’ll say, “just leave my ass. Please don’t cheat on me.” Thats as far as it’ll go. Anyway, I just do anything I can do he doesn’t feel like anyone else could ever be allowed into my life like that. He’s the only man I want, and I reassure him as best I can with anything I can. He’s a wonderful man and I can’t wrap my head around why anyone would hurt him that way. I mean, he is fairytale wonderful, and I can’t even believe it. If he’s good to you in every other way, see if there’s anything you can do to help him or ease his mind.

Answer

Have you given hin a reason NOT to trust you in the past? Maybe hes holding on to it...

Answer

Leave him.. he’s accusing, doesn’t trust you. If y’all can’t communicate and work this out it’s not even worth it. Communication AND TRUST are key factors in a relationship.

Y'all am I crazy???

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