Cant feel anything?

Question

Recently started dating my boyfriend, everything  is great but when it comes to sex, im pretty new to it. When he goes down on me, i cant really feel anything? And when he fingers me it feels good, but i cant orgasm, and after awhile it starts to hurt which ruins the feeling. Sex is the same way, i cant feel anything or it just hurts. Im not sure what im doing wrong, maybe its cuz im not fully comfortable yet?

Answer

It can be hard to get aroused when you don’t know what you like yet. So I suggest trying new things and then communicating with your partner when you like or dislike something. Personally I can’t orgasm unless there is also clitoris stimulation so that’s something that is important in my sex life. I only started having sex two and a half years ago so I remember how it feels to be in new territory and not really knowing what sex was supposed to feel like. However I learned what turned me and what turned my partner on the most and it became fun and exciting.

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enjoying sex as a woman is all about how comfortable you feel with your body, yourself and your partner. I advise experimenting as much as possible. Start small, like kissing all over body, licking, ice cubes, chocolate, try the sensation of all those things. Take time to learn yourself and your partners preferences. I didn’t have my first orgasm until 2’years into sex, didn’t even realise i wasn’t having it until one birthday my partner at the time spent hours giving me pleasure and something literally burst Inside me. Pleasure is all about foreplay, and foreplay only works if your partner knows what turns you on. Oldest book but defo gave me some tips: The joy of sex. Do some research and then use it to bring you and your partner closer. Good luck!

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Its alllll about being comfortable with yourself and your partner. Try different things. Take time. Dont be scared to tell him what you like!

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Also new to sex and feeling the exact same way. like it's nice but not arousing and I've only been able to orgasm twice out of like, 8 times having sex. I thin in to much in my head

Cant feel anything?

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