I had my annual today. I also have been having major pain right side near my ovary. The obgyn said to either get on birth control and stop wasting time. Or to get knocked up. She wants me on depo or nexplanon to stop my cycle because if the cycle is stopped the pain will stop. I am so tired of them pushing birth control down my throat as a "fixitall". I want kids but only have one tube because of an ectopic. So I dont want to be on birth control because of that and also i have some negative side effects. But I dont want to pressure my partner into being a father. I dont know what to do. I'm sitting here crying because I have no idea what to do. Any advice ladies?