Yukon xl or Suburban?? Bench or captain seats??

Rhea • Married to my high school sweetheart and Mommy to a Prince and 2 Princesses ♡

Hey everyone. We recently sold our 2015 Subaru Outback and are looking at bigger vehicles, the Yukon XL and Suburban. I’m a bit torn between the two. They honestly seem the same no matter how much research I keep doing. We have 3 children, two forward facing car seats and one infant car seat. Also torn between the second row as a bench or captain seats. Anyone have any suggestions?