I’m tired of trying to be friends with people who constantly make bad decisions, ask for advice, ignore that advice, and continue to make bad decisions.

Own it. Don’t blame the person who gave you advice. Don’t tell that person that they are always so negative about you all the time. Don’t ignore the person who is trying to be your friend, because you keep asking for advice and getting it. Seriously, own your shit.

If you are still with that guy you constantly complain about, and ask for advice, I’m going to tell you to change your relationship dynamic, or leave the situation. If you don’t, that’s not on me.

If you are tired of guys only seeing you as a piece of ass, try not talking to several guys at once, and sleeping with them before dating them. If you sleep with someone, and they stop talking to you, own that shit.

If your guy keeps breaking up with you because he doesn’t want a relationship, and wants to keep partying, but you keep going to him for booty calls, don’t expect me to agree that you can fix him. Just let me be polite and ignore your dumbass decisions.

Oh, and above all, don’t tell me all these horrible things about your family, people I’ve never met, and then expect me to agree that they are great people when I do meet them.

Seriously, just let me be your friend without asking my advice. If you don’t own your shit, then you are too sensitive of a person to ask for advice from someone like me.