Bedroom help 🤦🏻‍♀️

Hi y’all!

So, I need some help.

Just going to put it out there. My sex life is boring ! I want to try new stuff but I will not lie I’m clueless. I was a virgin until I got married (about 1 year ago) we have been together for about 8 years. We have done oral but until our wedding night we didn’t have sex. My husband was not a virgin but not having sex for so long he said he doesn’t even know anymore 🙃. So I want to start to making things fun. He said he’s open to trying other things than missionary I just have to tell him what I want to do 🤦🏻‍♀️ so I need help from y’all.. I am a bigger lady and am very self conscious 😑. Any suggestions on “positions” that isn’t to hard for a bigger lady/ not flexible to do ? Also, I want to orgasm, he finishes all the time but I don’t.. Help a sister out thanks !!!