How does sex make you feel?

Ladies! I am completely okay with admitting that what I’m going to say is not healthy, and almost toxic, so you don’t need to comment saying I need help 😊 I noticed that my entire mood shifts when I don’t get sex on the regular. By “regular” I mean just about every day, if not every other day. I literally just notice I don’t have motivation, I get insecure, I feel like my relationship is failing.. I noticed that when we do have sex, the day of and after I’m a completely different person. I feel happier, I clean the house, I do things for him I don’t usually do. I guess the point of me saying this, is to get some insight?. I want to know if this comes off as a dependency issue, or maybe an addiction? It’s come to the point I try to initiate it, and he is polite but says he is just too tired or really just not in the mood and I cry and think we’re going to break up or something. I know it pushes him away because I make him feel bad for not wanting sex, but expect him to understand when I say no. I am going to counseling but I want insight from ladies like you, who don’t know me, who may struggle with this too. What can I do to help this? Positive vibes only please ❤️