How often do you and hubby “get busy?”

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SAHM with a toddler and one on the way. I think I expect/want us to do it more often, but maybe I’m crazy... hopefully this poll will shed some insight into whether or not we are “normal.” 🙃

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Woah I didn’t expect 1-3 times a month to have most votes. That’s really sad. :(

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I’m 28 weeks pregnant and we have a 2 year old, so we’re lucky for once a week lol. 
I miss the days before kids when we did it multiple times everyday 🤣😭

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My husband and I will either have a good week of at least once a day all week or we’ll go three or four days without sex. It really depends on how I’m feeling, if it’s been a stressful/tiring day/week, or if LO will go to bed. If everything was perfect all the time it’d be everyday, but because of outside factors it’d say it’s usually every other to every two days. I get upset when we got more than two days though. 🤷🏼‍♀️😂

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We were averaging 1-3x a month before I got pregnant. Now it's more like once every other month. Sex just isn't our thing. That's probably why it took us a year to get pregnant in the first place. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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My husband works out of town during the week, so we have less opportunity right now than we do usually. When he’s home, it’s several times a week. Our daughter is 2 1/2 and an awesome sleeper. We’ll see what happens when #2 is here in a few months. I will miss pregnancy sex, but that’s the only thing I expect to miss about pregnancy (except maybe baby kicks) 😂

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21 month old, 26 weeks pregnant and breastfeeding. I have a low sex drive, maybe caused by breastfeeding, and i have even less of one this pregnancy as since sex seems to cause spotting which freaks me out. We have sex maybe once or twice a month tbh but then we might do it a few times in one week if the mood happens to strike.

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We have a 9 year old, 12 month old and I'm 7 months pregnant so finding time when the kids are sleeping and we aren't exhausted is hard, but we still do it 3-4x a week. It's important to us. PLUS, I'm gonna miss it so much for the 6-8 weeks after I give birth.

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I have a 10.5 year old, a 1.5 year old, and I’m 33 weeks pregnant. Honestly I get exhausted and I’m too tired to do the deed while other nights I’m the instigator. So it varies from either every night to maybe twice a month. Before I was pregnant it was pretty much every night. It’s important to my husband so I try and make myself available for him unless I’m just not doing well. Nothing is worse than having sex with someone who is just completely uninterested and I don’t want him feeling like he isn’t enough or something along those lines just because I’m tired.

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We would love to do it more often. I am a stay at home mom and my husband works 50-60 hour weeks. We have limited time together (we also have a 5 year old, 3 year old, 1 year old, and a puppy) as well as not wanting to add to the family especially right now. One day we will go back to the way it use to be lol.

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We have a 10.5 year old and an 8 months old. We do 3-5 times a week just depending.

How often do you and hubby “get busy?”

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