A women can’t raise a man

I know the statement “a women can’t raise a man” that may be true, I believe a girl or a boy needs a father in there life. But a boy especially does because only a man knows how to be a man and a women can’t teach that because she is not a man. But damn if you are a single mother and you have a baby father that doesn’t want to step up that statement becomes pointless because I can’t FORCE a man to be a father figure. So as a single mother is it my duty to find my son a father figure, is that my job? I feel as though I have way more things to be stressing about like providing for my son on my own working full time, school full time and taking care of him. Should I be adding finding a father figure for my son on the list? At the end of the day there are thousands of women that have raised amazing men. I believe that’s what you have to do especially when you don’t have a choice.