Feeling discouraged...too soon to tell?

Tina

We have been TTC since September without luck. (I am 28, turning 29 this year and my husband will be turning 28 this year) I have been feeling quite discouraged because all of my friends and even my sisters were able to get pregnant so quick and easily and I am not understanding what is taking so long. My husband just did a sperm analysis this past Tuesday and we are waiting on his results. I have also had blood testing done to confirm I am, in fact, ovulating. My period is due on Sunday the 17th yet I felt some pretty strange cramping in my lower belly on the 12/13 for about 24 hours. I took a cheapie test last night and again this morning and both are pretty clear negatives. Is it too early to tell or would I at least be getting super faint lines by now? It’s so unsettling how you can think you know your body and be completely wrong. We have been using OPK’s and have even tried Pre-seed. I completely understand that some women are struggling with worse scenarios but I am so discouraged.

Is it crazy to start seeking fertility help?

Do I still have a chance of a BFP even though the cheapies were BFN yesterday and today?