I’m not a real woman?

My sons dad scolded me for having a routined midwife appointment yesterday. And this morning I begged him to take me to the hospital so they could check me out since I’ve been leaking weird discharge. I’m about 38 weeks pregnant. How am I less of a woman for wanting to be checked out ? I’ve had reoccurring infections since November. I didn’t beg anyone for money, I was just gonna ask a friend to get me an Uber. 😭😭

He cussed me out all the way up to the hospital and I’m just defeated.