Anal/piercings

First order of business is anal i need all the tips and tricks ANYONE has I have done it multiple times the first time he did it he didn’t even know he did it so there was no lube and he was fucking like it was my vagina and we’ve done it three times since and those times knowingly and it’s not as good as it was the first time so any help would be great on how to make it feel as magical as people say. Second thing I got a vertical labret piercing almost a week ago and it’s almost to the point where I can suck dick again the problem is HOW!?!