I'm 21 and I've been married with my husband for 2 years now but I feel like our life isn't going anywhere cause he's supposed to go to school to be a therapist but hasn't really taken any steps toward that and he doesn't have a job so I have to support us. I really just want to have a family already but if things don't change i don't know if were ever been able to and i worry that the longer I wait that i won't be able to even if I leave and try to find someone else. But what do u guys think am I shitty person for feeling this way