Hey girls,

I’m 19 and I’m a Virgin. I had a relationship before for 2 years but it was seeing each other once a week and just talking and maximum kissing.

That guy pressured me to give in to him and it pushed me away to not do so.

Right now I’m dating a man I love so much for the first time. I told him I’m a Virgin first date because I wanted him to be ready not to pass the line because I wasn’t ready yet.

He respected me so much for it. I was happy.

One month after dating I finally wanted to make love with him, it was perfect ! He was so gentle and amazing! I’m so thankful for such an experience. After that happened (he has huge trust issues) he started saying “who knows if you gave yourself to me, because you haven’t bled”

I was so upset because he remembers that I was scared, that I didn’t know what to do... that is hard to fake 😕😡 yes I didn’t bleed because I was relaxed with him ! It hurt but it wasn’t horrible.

Then he apologized. And now after dating 6 months I told my family friends about him and all because I’m so happy !!

And my family friends asked if he is my first man . I said yes, first man that I love. And I told that whole story to my man which he said “Hmmmm they asked you if I’m your first man and you said that first man you loved...” leading to the fact that he is “questioning” me in my virginity...

that made me so sad again because for me it was a beautiful, first time moment that I cherish so much and he says that. He later said “it was a joke baby” 😒

He had other women, I was clean and didn’t give myself to that asshole... and thought he would appreciate it but he questions me ?

What?

Opinions please. ? Should I be upset ?