He can’t even get past the first part of his middle finger

I’m relaxed around him but it h u r t s if he puts it any further in

How do I relax enough for him to go a little further in ? Wtf am I gonna do when we have sex ? LMAO help a girl out please 😂😂😂

UPDATE:

I took y’alls advice and I was finally able to relax. I moved my leg up a little more and took a long exhale and he was able to stick his entire middle finger inside

Slight problem...I might have farted ???

I was so embarrassed but he didn’t say anything he just kept going. I am hoping to god he doesn’t ever bring it up oh my god. I think I might have been too relaxed oh my fuck 😂😂😂 I’m gonna kms