Trying to decide


Hi I’ve 2 kids ages 8 and 5 for 3 years on off I’m undecided on whether to have another or not anyone with 3 kids what is it like I worry the gap might be too big with mine and my weight I’m but overweight trying to lose at the min also I’m 36 now so if I do it would have to be this or next year I also had 3 miscarriages before my babies so that worries me anyone feel like this what made u fully decide to try for more