So my dad molested me when was 11 or 12. My dad told my mom he did it and she asked me, but I denied it. I didn't know how to accept it at that time or really how to deal with it so I hide the truth. I felt disgusting. I'm 24 now and my mom says she knew it was true, but was embarrassed about it. She tells everybody about it and constantly reminds me it happened. She says things like "you were molested". She will be on the phone and she will tell other people it happened while I'm in the room too. She does it more often when she is drunk. I tell her that it bothers me, but she continues to do it. I feel like that is something I went through by myself and I hate when it gets put on blast. It makes me feel like that's all that I am, but I know that's not true. I feel like I'm starting to resent her which I feel guilty about. I just needed to vent it highkey helps me feel better.