My boyfriend and I are very sexually active, and extremely attracted to eachother. He always reassures me how attractive he thinks I am, which is wonderful, however I’m getting a tad bit bored because hes pretty vanilla when it comes to sex. I want to spice it up, at least every once in a while. I’ve tried asking him if theres anything he wants to try that we dont usually do, he said no not really. I’ve tried to initiate and be more freaky and sometimes its well received but not met with the same intensity, and other times I feel like its just brushed off all together. Does anyone have any ideas of what I could do to either ease him into it or advice on bringing it up to him? I in no way want to force him to do things he isn’t comfortable with, and I really dont want to sound insulting to him