Pain during sex?

Que • Shining like a Diamond, Rolling with the dice..

I just starting dating this guy and when we slept together the first time he saw on my face that I was in pain and he said it’s not normal.

In my head I was very confused because I always thought sex is “supposed to” hurt.

Isn’t it? Please guid me!

I used to date another guy and it was always very very very painful. Now he did have a big “one” so now I think that might be why it has been painful. I also was a virgin then but we did “do it” for like two years and it was painful always and every time.

However, my new guy made it seem like it’s abnormal to experience pain what so ever unless it was your first time, second or third. So I’m almost freaked out.

I only had these tow sex partners in my life, so please help me.

Is sex supposed to hurt?