He’s not ready for a baby

So me and my husband tried hard for a baby and got pregnant and ended up losing the baby at 11 weeks.

I was devastated, struggled with mental health stuff because of it and ended up in anti depressants.

He never really seemed that upset, he cried the day we found out but other then that he kept saying “life happens, we have to keep moving on”

Well I’m now ready to try again and he’s not. He said he’s still grieving, which I get. But how do I “handle” this? I want a baby so bad. He has no idea when he will be ready. He doesn’t want therapy or to talk about it to help him heal.

So I feel like it could be a long time for him to be ready :/