So, my husband is military and is deployed.

We have an 15 month old and I’m 7 months pregnant.

Normally my husband treats my basically like a fairy princess 😂😂😂

But, shortly before he had to leave for deployment he started by just being generally less attentive.

Like he’d rather play video games than even just eat dinner with me. 😏

I let it slide because I knew he was just stressed and it was an easy distraction for him.

Anyway, it’s been about 6 months he’s been gone now and he’s only gotten worse.

It’s hard enough we can only communicate through the phone.

But he makes it worse by being... well... straight up mean.

He’s dismissive, rude, overly sarcastic, passive aggressive.

Nothing like the man I know.

And if he’s not being a dick he’s Being very weird sexually.

The worst one being that he quote “insists on having a threesome, couple swap, or something of equal or greater value”

On top of all this- he truly broke my heart on Valentine’s Day.

I went out of my way to do a special boudoir maternity shoot for him and all he did was yell at me for “wasting time and money” and then proceeded to call me stupid for thinking that’s something he’d want for Valentine’s Day. Then he had the audacity to request nudes- which I did NOT send- then he said “well if you’re not going to I can always look at someone else’s boobies and if we’re not Going to sext I’m not gonna waste my time talking to you”

I feel my marriage is failing and he’s not even physically here. 💔