I can’t believe this is happening to me

I have been living with my in laws this past year. My husband and I moved in to save some money. We had the perfect relationship until I had a baby. She does not let my mom come see my own baby. She judges me for not cleaning up more or cooking. She told me “what’s the big deal you had a baby and you barely sleep, you can still do dishes . Clean , do laundry, what do you need help for? “ she judges me for asking my mom for help with the baby. She gets upset if anyone visits me. I moved out of the house and I’m at my moms house now with my baby and my hubby is at home until we find a place and move ASAP. I just wanted to enjoy my baby and enjoy this time and now everything is ruined