Whenever I get mad at my “best friend” she cries and makes me feel bad so I’m no longer mad but it’s manipulative and hurts me. Please read and give me advise.

Right before the super bowl a girl got mad at me during a debate because we didn’t agree, and was talking about me in front of my face so I texted my “best friend” next period and she said “yea everyone’s now talking about you” and I asked why and asked to know what I did that was so bad but she wouldn’t tell me. Apparently that girl planned to punch me in the face during break period, and asked my “best friend” where I would be and she told her, and my “best friend” didn’t tell me about it until 3 hours after it would’ve happened. The only reason the girl didn’t PUNCH me was because I had my head down in my arms (crying) and she couldn’t get a good hit. So I was hurt my “best friend” would do that.

BUT EVEN WORSE

School ended and I skipped practice to go to my brothers track meet to get away from them and my “best friend” texted me saying she was talking about me on ft with another girl and how in the debate I was wrong and I’m stupid and my opinion shouldn’t matter and how I shouldn’t be allowed to speak. So I started crying because she was talking about me behind my back. We go to hangout the day we normally do and SHES UPSET WITH ME and I ask her why and she wrote, because she didn’t want to say, how she was upset I was hanging out with a girl she used to be friends with but no longer was and how I never talked to that girl much before but I was now and I was like “yea because you and all my other friends WOULDN’T TALK TO ME FOR 2 WEEKS AND SHE WOULD SO WE GOT CLOSER” and she said she was upset because we were talking about her behind her back and I told her the truth which was “all she asked was why you wouldn’t talk to her anymore and I told her I didn’t know and changed topics” and she said yes but it still hurt and was crying and I was like “how do you think I FELT WHEN YOU TALKED ABOUT ME BEHIND MY BACK??”

Somehow we made up but a few days ago she had this plan to take a girls iPad and put her fingerprint into it (her old BFF) so her and her other friends could see if she was hiding a bf and expose her or,what they were hoping, confirm if she was a lesbian and tell everyone then snoop through her texts to see if/who she talked about. I told her that I don’t think she should do it because it’s wrong and mean and she’s mad at me and hasn’t spoken to me since Friday.

I warned the girl (my previous BFF and now new BFF since she’s nice and nothing like this) and she took the girls fingerprint off her iPad so she’s gonna find out next week and people are gonna beat me up (same girl who wanted to originally is apart of the plan) for telling her

ANY ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO?

My mom wants me to CHANGE SCHOOLS (private to public)

I want to die

Any advice would help and thanks if you took the time to read it.

WHAT THE DEBATE WAS ON (if interested)

What’s less evil?

1. A soldier killing another soldier in war (my side)

2. A soldier killing the kings enemy (her side)