So... I’m 11w3d pregnant with my 3rd pregnancy but hopefully first child... my symptoms are not terrible like some woman as in I have no morning sickness I just have no energy (could fall asleep at the drop of a hat but cannot stay asleep longer then 2-3 hours), sore boobs, head aches (I have a bad neck and that’s been flaring up something chronic since I got pregnant), feeling yuck within myself (like I don’t feel “sexy” and with the no energy and insomnia I have no motion ...

so in saying all of that my poor partner is struggling with the fact I’m just not in the “mood” and thinks I just don’t want him now I “got what I wanted” which makes me so sad and made the comment “well I won’t be going thru this again” like fuck I don’t want him to not enjoy this pregnancy coz I’m not super horny and then not want to try later on for a sibling-it’s actually devastated me!!

I love my partner but having sex is the last thing on my mind when I’m feeling like crap, tired and honestly feeling a little bloated/fat/not my normal self... so my question is- ladies how can I change this so I can make my man happy? Any ideas??? I’m thinking as I’m writing this maybe getting him into the mood b4 bed time is best so I don’t “wake up” after we do it and feel frustrated I’m not sleeping coz I’m then over tired but how do I get into that frame of mind?? What are all u lovely ladies doing to keep things going in ur relationship while pregnant? Do u set a silent alarm-is that crazy?? Im keen on proving him wrong n showing him how much more I love him right now for making me pregnant with his baby but sadly it’s not something I think about till he is at work or it’s basically too late-i will add when we have started something as we go to bed I have sadly fallen asleep not coz I’m bored but coz I’m sooo tired...

Help 🤪