So my fiance and I just decided to have an actual wedding next year, the plan was to just go to the court house but I decided that I wanna go try on wedding dresses and get dressed up and have my dad walk me down the aisle. BUT since I had our son my anxiety has just gotten worse and I don't like being the center of attention for huge (or just) crowds. Well we decided were just going to invite immediate family (grandparents, parents, and siblings)but after counting everyone and their spouse and kids it is almost 30 people. To me that's still a lot. Through my pregnancy and even now nothing has been about me and adam or what I or adam want. Its always about my step mom or dad and her family. This is going to be our day.. I'm now thinking about just inviting grandparents and parents. I'm gonna hurt feelings but oh well. And at the reception everyone else can go. It's just since the ceremony is serious and personal I want bare minimum...

So is it wrong of me?