🛑HELP! Had sex 9 days before ovulating

We had sex 9 days before my ovulation in January and now I am 14 days late with really tender and acheing boobs, my hands feel hotter than usual and also been having poop problems the past weeks. We used a condom before he came but there were few strokes without it. I took a pregnancy test 5 days ago (Feb 14) and was negative. But still no period now. Help! Could I be pregant?

My man is overseas to spend time with his family and I don't want to scare him if this isn't the real thing. Pls send help!