Why does my mom say my dad doesn’t care about me?

My dad doesn’t do much with me since he got married even though he lives pretty close. It hurts sometimes, but I don’t say anything because I don’t want her feeling bad for me or saying anything to him.

She always says why doesn’t it bother you that your dad doesn’t see you much?

Your dad doesn’t care about you and you don’t seem to care.

Your dad only comes by and gives you money, he doesn’t care about seeing you.

Your dad never does anything for you except pay for stuff

I know she doesn’t mean anything bad by it but it still makes me feel bad. I already know he doesn’t see me. Why does she have to remind me?