So in all the months we have been intimate, he hasnt succeeded once to get me off. Hes gotten close a few times. Hes been trying really hard, and it makes me feel good that hes atleast trying you know. We have been through a little at the start with him not lasting long and also not really want to have sex that much or rarely (which for a new relationship is weird, so it made me feel really down). I then learnt he was watching porn and doing you know 3-4 times a day!. Things have really improved alot on those two things. But now im thinking that because of all that, im not really horny anymore as much as i should be as im not getting off. But it could be maybe i dont feel worthy or sexy that could be the reason i aint.

Who else has, or has had little issues in their sex life and how did you get through it and/or dealt with it.

P.S

I have supported him through it all. We went on to using gel and then went through alot of funny times with that. In the end we realised he actually doesnt need it and it was a few things that helped him last longer etc.